Bow tie or neck tie?

Babe and I has another wedding to attend to this coming February. With that being said I have to look for another black dress and a new suit and a neck tie for him. My boyfriend asked me a week ago if he should wear a tuxedo and a bow tie, but I just gave him a sour look Lol! I think bow ties, nowadays, are not as frequently worn as neckties. I also thinks that he would look like a waiter if he will wear a bow tie hahaha! Although bow ties are still considered a men’s fashion despite their lack of visibility in most events. I would prefer him wearing a neck tie.